Our Muffin girl is still cute as a button and as precocious as ever.
Here are some things that are recently on her mind:
SANTA CLAUS and her birthday!! Is it too early to put the Elf on the Shelf up? The stockings and the Elf are all we brought with us for Christmas...
Somehow after me singing the Santa Claus is Coming to Town song in response to her questioning she has decided to sleep in her own room,in her own bed for FOUR straight nights. I sort of miss her, but I also like having a little room to myself...
She is OBSESSED with getting the Barbie Town house with the
PINK elevator. Retail price in Aus is $299 (Target), In the US it is about $130, I think (WalMart)! If we are here, Santa may as well ship it, it has to still be less expensive.
She is also very concerned about DEATH. She asks often about Grandma's mom. Why did she die? Etc. Then, she gets very sad and says I don't want you to die, Mama. Who will take care of me? Ahhh...she gets me in tears. I don't want to die either sweet Muffin. Don't want anyone else to take care of you....No, that is not what I say. I tell her that we all hope to live till we get old. Then, she talks about Bo being old (sorry, Dad) and she worries about him. Believe me, she does too much thinking and I can't even think about how that will be as it will be heartbreaking for me, and then for my daughter who adores him to be heartbroken,too...Let's move on!
Wanting to DANCE (not have babies, you know, I want to be a ballerina like Anna) and play SOCCER and go to a school where MIKEY is not there to BITE her! I can't enroll her in anything with our not knowing where we are going status...but I know where to go for dance now, and told her we would consider schools again, once she's in panties. She is just too mature to hang out for hours with the little ones in diapers...Another school holiday is coming up and it is tricky with enrollments here as we missed the start of everything while we vacay'd in America...
She is making some progress on the potty. Even went on her own at the gym the other day and tried to go while I took a shower yesterday resulting in a Fuh-Fuh- FECAL mess all over her and our couch. The couch part was my fault. I had no idea she had pooped and I usually smell it. I did ask and she played me...Went to change her, as the changing table is in the sleeping bub's room, and didn't know she had sort of pulled off her diaper...and ahhh...no more details needed. It was a mess. And I said "I'm going to lose my mind!" Poor thing responded "You are going to lose your mind everyday". True dat. So, I've been schooled by the Muffin and plan to find a new expression. Open for suggestions. Also, working on just rolling with the punches...just handle it and move on...which I do,after I make a fuss.
She is very excited to see GiGi and Pop Pop next week.
She is very true to her missing her family and cousins and has appreciated all the mail love! Recent I misses included "Kaelyn and her baby sister." (She remembers K's Pirate Bday Party one of our last Richmond events). Also, Myra and Sam our new neighborhood neighbors have been brought up. We have to send them something. The last thing didnn't make it to the Post so maybe this time we will get past our good intentions and make it happen. Just happened to recently pick up a little something for Kaelyn and her sister.
What The Muffin Is Doing!
She won't put a bow or barrette in her hair but she puts them all over her My Little Pony toys for a Pony Show...
She is giving up playing with her Barbie's because they
need a house and without one, nothing will do.
We left some of her little princesses in the rental car in Adelaide so she doesn't have them to distract her...Don't ask how? I knew to check, but she had a meltdown at the airport and we were in a crazy time and place and I just did not think to tell Seth to retrieve toys...I understand some are on their way via GiGi and PopPop who will be with us next week.At least they fit in her little doll house.
Playing with Legos and Blocks and was very into Play-Doh but it is now too sticky and messy and she loses her mind and screams...waking Huckleberry. She usually plays with play-doh while he naps otherwise he is all into it and EATING it. "Ummm Nummmm".
Loves TV still and movies. Loves Wizard of Oz and analyzes it and asks questions about it all of the time. She doesn't watch it all the time like you would think from her conversation. Also, still loves Ponyo, which we have already borrowed 3 times from the library! Seems to be off Rapunzel/Tangled a bit for now...
When something is done that should not have been she blames Soren Lorenson, her imaginary friend, based on the story of the
Charlie and Lola books and cartoons. He is Lola's BIF!:) Kinda funny.
Since she began deleting my photos from the iPad (yup, iNeed to do something with them, have no idea what I lost, so glad I caught her when I did) she doesn't use it much. We, by that I mean her father, also found an age appropriate you tube alternative called Gube, rated G... that she seems happy with...though I have not checked for Betty Crocker kitchen vidoes. She was obsessed with them....Still enjoys helping prepare meals...
Some of the not so positives:
Writing on everything. Uh-oh Mother's Daughter on this one! Walls...Photos, toys...(Please send Magic Erasers,someone.They don't sell 'um here.) I haven't gotten it off the wall yet.
Meltdowns usually once a day but seem to be getting better with the new Santa fixation. Typically around 2:00 if we've been out in the morning and 4:00 if we did not. I'm trying to handle them better. She is tired but won't nap and if she naps she is up until 10 or later...
Insisting on having her Daddy at times when he is not available whether it be in our vicinity or hearing...and I am only trying to help her. Hurts ma feelings big time. Last time, I said, "(Muffin) I know you asked for Daddy, but he didn't hear you, can I help you?" I swear her head must've spun a few times a la the Possessed. Again, I am working on my reactions to the DD though I can't help being hurt. I don't care how old she is. I don't mind that she wants him. I mind how she freaks out. She just asked me the other day (you know one of those questions from the backseat?) what freaked out means. Goodness, this girl. Daddy is very grounding and refereeing already. Now, gotta work on his hearing/response to help prevent some of these meltdowns.
Did you hear about the elevator at the hotel in Adelaide? The girl was in a mood. I had both kids, The Man was handling something at the car...We walk in and she goes to the elevator, hits the button. This is all fairly typical except that Huckleberry and I were way behind her, though she was always in my sight. That is, until the elevator door opened, my DD walked in and went to our room door ALL BY HERSELF. I know thhis may get a giggle. I know it is no surprise for her to remember our floor number or where our room was, but still good for her age, but the possible dangers of it all...No lectures needed. The Man did not even GET what I was telling him until the next day. He thought she just did what she always does...the buttons for us, etc. I said, why would I have made a deal out of telling you if this weren't different? Solo Muffin in the Elevator. Independent Sprite acting out of SPITE!
There you have a little glimpse in to life with Muffin.
Soon to Come. Huckleberry, 17 months, aka 1 year 5 months.
Back by Popular Demand (yeah, right). Stuff to Know About Australia, just in case yah want to come for some Fun'da Down 'Unda
The stripes on the road for ROAD CROSSINGS are nicknamed Zebra Crossings . Cute, huh? Be sure to say it Brit/Aus way ZEHBRA! You had better stop for pedestrians because they don't even look. They do have the right of way, but I just can't exude that confidence on American or Aussie soil. Have they not noticed the amount of people with their heads down in their...crack....berries and mobile phones?
If your making a reservation, call it a BOOKING and if you need a HIGHCHAIR, ask them to reserve it for you. They have signs on the tables that say reserved...but booking is the word they use when you call and that high chair thing is the biggest pain in the drain. Seriously? Sydney is so child friendly in so many ways, but you only have two high chairs and I needed to book one? Umkay. I am thinking of keeping a toddler strap on seat in the BOOT for those days when we don't have a booking at all. I guess I'd have to attach it to the stroller for those days that we are mostly on foot. Keeping a hungry boy in a stroller to eat is a PITA and...holding him is nearly impossible because he's kinda like the frog in the song "Tiny Tim". He grabs everything to eat and then he throws stuff...and he is a DISASTER. It's a wonder we ever go out. But truly they are both pretty good when we are in public. Also, consider yourself warned, you may not have a booking and go to a restaurant with lots of empty tables that are "Reserved". They won't work you in or figure it out.They just keep the tables empty and waiting.
Also, the check, refill, new drink never comes unless you ask. It is so weird. No wonder you aren't supposed to tip! Service generally sucks. But the tab, also called "ticket" would be much higher with a little attention.
Later, Gators!